Don’t Get Married If You Can’t Handle Lovemaking,’ Pastor Bisi Adewale Tells Christians
Pastor Bisi Adewale Explains Why Lovemaking Is Essential in Marriage
Popular Nigerian marriage counsellor, Pastor Bisi Adewale, has stirred massive reactions online after dropping what many are calling a “bold bedroom sermon.”
In a viral clip from his appearance on The Honest Bunch podcast, the pastor advised singles and married couples to stop treating intimacy like a burden.
According to him, anyone who doesn’t enjoy lovemaking has no business getting married.
In his words, he said:
“If you don’t like love making, please don’t get married. All these missionary people normally do in marriages must stop. There’s nowhere in the Bible that says women shouldn’t be at the top.”
His statement immediately sent social media into a frenzy, with netizens debating whether his words were biblical truth or just controversial preaching.
While some applauded him for being real about what affects many marriages, others slammed him for being “too explicit for a pastor.”
Many women also praised him for normalizing open conversations about intimacy in Christian homes, saying it’s high time pastors addressed real marital issues instead of pretending they don’t exist.
Love him or hate him, Pastor Bisi has once again gotten Nigerians talking about what truly keeps marriages alive.
Watch video below:
“If you don’t like love making, please don’t get married. All these missionary people normally do in marriages must stop, there’s no where in the Bible that says women shouldn’t be at the top” – Pastor Bisi Adewale pic.twitter.com/31XYztgChj
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