A Nigerian doctor has sparked widespread discussion after advising men who have been trying to conceive with their wives for over six months without success to ask their partners important questions.
Dr. Chijioke Nwosu, a renowned gynecologist based in Lagos, shared this advice during a recent radio interview, urging men to consider that fertility issues may not always be one-sided. According to Dr. Nwosu, while many focus on male infertility, women can also face health challenges that might not be immediately obvious, and couples should have open, honest conversations about their reproductive health.
“If you have had unprotected sex with your wife for six months and she is not pregnant, you should consider asking her questions,” Dr. Nwosu stated. “Sometimes, there might be underlying medical issues that neither partner is aware of, and communication is the first step in addressing them.”
His comments have triggered debate, with some praising his straightforward approach, while others raise concerns about the sensitivity of the issue.
Dr. Nwosu clarified that his advice was not meant to place blame on either party but to encourage couples to seek medical advice early. “Fertility challenges can be a complex issue, and it’s important for both partners to understand that it might not always be as simple as timing or luck. A doctor’s consultation can help identify problems early and increase the chances of successful conception,” he explained.
The doctor also stressed the importance of regular health check-ups and maintaining a healthy lifestyle to improve overall fertility. He encouraged both men and women to take proactive steps in understanding their reproductive health, rather than waiting for problems to persist.
Dr. Nwosu’s comments come as fertility rates in Nigeria, like many parts of the world, continue to face pressures from lifestyle changes, medical conditions, and environmental factors. Studies have shown that infertility affects both men and women equally, yet there is often a cultural stigma around discussing reproductive health, particularly for women.
The conversation on fertility is especially significant in a country like Nigeria, where family-building is seen as a major life goal. For many couples, there is societal pressure to have children, and the inability to conceive can lead to feelings of frustration and emotional strain.
In response to the growing public interest, Dr. Nwosu has encouraged couples to approach the topic of fertility with empathy and openness. He emphasized that while medical tests and treatments are essential, emotional support from both partners plays a crucial role in navigating the journey.
With his statement, Dr. Nwosu has brought attention to the need for greater awareness and understanding of fertility issues, urging couples to prioritize communication and seek professional guidance when necessary.
