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I’ll learn to love him again but what if he starts h!tting me after few years or months inside the marriage – LADY ASK RELATIONSHIP EXPERT

I have an issue about my relationship life.
I do not want my ex anymore because he raised his hands on me(be.at me) and has proven to have temper mismanagement occasionally.
I love my parents, family and I do not want my decision to hurt their feelings so that they can give me their blessings in marriage.
Right now the man from a different tribe is a kind man and since I have known him he has never hurt me instead I have been the one hurting him with the troubles caused by my ex.
He has proven beyond doubt that he adores me and I want to be with him but I’m too scared.
The new guy and I have known each other since 2018 but because of this my ex and parents decisions towards me not marrying a different tribe has made the relationship go on and off.
Last year we came back together after parting ways for a year and he was supposed to come for introduction and pay my bride price but I turned it down because my parents said they will never accept him. I’m just tired I turned 27 this April.
I want to be happy.. I desire to be a mom and a wife but with the Way things are going I’m confused. Should I go ahead and marry him knowing that my parents are not happy about it or should I just go back to my ex for my parents to be happy. Maybe I’ll learn to love him again but what if he starts h!tting me after few years or months inside the marriage?
Oh my goodness…