Be warned: These techniques are so powerful she’s likely to fall in love.
1. Hold her hand.
Doing this brings in chemistry for both of you. She will want more and will get a little pitter-patter in her heart to alert her you are being romantic and affectionate.
2. Touch her back.
When you open the door for her, leaning over to see if she’s having fun, or just casually opening the door for her a slight touch on her back for a couple of seconds will help her notice you are giving her attention.
3. Tell her that she’s beautiful.
You don’t need to overdo it with compliments. But when the time is right, tell her she’s gorgeous.
4. Stare into her eyes and smile.
If you want to be a little daring, you can even bite your lip as you do this. (à la Prince Harry at his wedding to Meghan Markle).
Look her in the eye, place your hand gently behind her neck, and softly go in for this kiss. Allow yourself to take time and be gentle, possibly even following her lead. As you both lean in, close your eyes and kiss her gently. Make it last a little.
5. Catch her attention.
Before you kiss a woman on the first date or after you’ve gotten to know her, you need the right atmosphere and, most importantly, consent.
Command and catch her attention and look into her eyes as you talk with her to make sure you connect with some eye contact.
6. Start slowly.
When you kiss a woman, make sure to go slowly at first and don’t use the tongue right away. Take it slow and breezy, and kiss her with gentle and smooth kisses with some passion in there.
7. Don’t bite, moan, or be aggressive with your kiss.
Just remember to be soft and tender and have a nice time with some passionate kissing.
When using your tongue, be in the moment and follow each other’s lead. It’s not about how wild your tongue can get but how sensual you can be.
When you know what to do leading up to and during the kiss, you create a magnetic love attraction.
8. Don’t use your tongue.
For a first kiss, usually, the tongue is off the table. However, you can glide your tongue on her bottom lip to see if she opens her mouth more for a French kiss.
9. Play into body intimacy.
As you’re kissing her, you should be moving your hands, caressing her face, touching her hair, and touching her body. A good kisser will kiss while using their hands to play into body intimacy.
Safe places to put your hands are on the side of her face, the back of her head or neck, and the middle or lower part of her back. You don’t want to move your hands down any further. That would be too far for a first kiss.
