When you are having a conversation with someone, it’s hood if you listen to the person who is speaking before you respond. Let’s just say that a conversation is a two way street. If you don’t do it that way, a person may loose interest in you.
You can decide to share ideas which you both think you are familiar with. You will notice that if you guys can share ideas which you are familiar with, the conversation becomes interesting and you won’t get tired listening to each other. When sharing your ideas, you should not attack your partner directly or indirectly with your words.You don’t know how to keep a secret.
Secret is something that is too personal. So when someone has told you one, he expects you to keep it and not to share with anyone you think. Am sure no one is ready to have a bad reputation about themselves. If you are that type of person who spills other people’s secrets, they will obviously ignore and hate you.
If you don’t want people to ignore you, learn to be that type of person who can be trusted. Building trust with someone is easy unlike rebuilding it once more after you have betrayed them. Even if they will trust you once more be sure that it won’t be that too much genuine like the first one.You like criticizing others too much.
There’s nothing wrong when you criticize your friends. People who you are close to expect you to give them an independent opinion incase they inquire something from you. Especially if it has to do with their behaviors or how they do their activities.
It’s good to be open but don’t criticize your friends too much. Not all of them will take it as a positive compliment. When correcting them, don’t be too much hard on them. Last but not least, avoid being clingy.People like to be associated with someone who has something to do. If you are just idle, your friends will start ignoring you because it’s like you aren’t adding any value in their life. You might not have any job currently but just keep yourself busy and wait for God’s time.
